Review: Betrayal: The Deepest Cut

Betrayal: The Deepest Cut
My rating: 1 of 5 stars

Did not like this book. In the beginning she is telling us about other people's stories of betrayal. The book feels like a jumbled puzzle of a series of betrayal stories that lack depth. She really does not even scratch the surface when it comes to defining betrayal and the types of betrayals. She also uses a very blanket approach in dealing with betrayal, forgiveness. Not to say that forgiveness is not an effective way of dealing with it but I expected her to go trough the process that one goes through to reach forgiveness.

The only time that the book start sounding real and less superficial is when she is talking about her journey to forgive her mother. I feel that she should have expanded more on this and should have used a lot more stories from her own life rather than using other people's stories. From the little that she mentions about her life it does seem like it is full of events that would have given her plenty material and make the book meaningful. Instead the book comes off preachy and a bit irritating!

I do believe that the writer was too scared to delve into her own past and her own personal issues and lay them bear for us which has resulted in giving us something that is really not worth the paper it's written on. Her fear of dealing with her own issues is evident and clear in how she deals with her relationship with her mother.

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