Review: Loving Each Other


Loving Each Other
Loving Each Other by Leo Buscaglia

My rating: 5 of 5 stars


This is one of the best books on relationships I've read, and I have read a lot! I love Leo's informal and simple, yet effective, style of writing. The book is an amazingly easy read, the ideas presented are simple to grasp, yet not simplistic. The book flows easily from one topic to the next and I love how he introduces the topics in the beginning of the book as well.

One of the first things he tackles is the "and they lived happily ever after" myth - one of the most tragic sentences in literature! I love the fact that he tackles the fairy tale myth head on, one of the main reasons why marriages fail.

I enjoyed how he presented his study and how he analyses each of the qualities identified for a successful relationship. I love the fact that the focus is not only on sexual relationship but also on non-sexual relationships. The qualities discussed in the book are required for successful relating in general.

All in all a great book that I will keep coming back to on an ongoing basis.


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